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Only person who can tolerate my wife

Naran

Husband thinks so. If you ask his wife, she will say that she is the only person who can tolerate her husband. I am talking about the couple I know here.

Both of them were consulting me for more than a year. They followed my instructions sincerely. Yet, the situation remained the same – they were continuing to fight with each other.

Then one day a miracle happened. The husband saw the blog I had earlier posted in WordPress: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f.

He simply took the statement from the post – “I am not the doer. Divine is the doer”, as an affirmation and continued to chant it.

After few days of chanting his anger came down and felt his wife has born in this world for his sake, thanks to the divine, so that necessary healing can happen for him, and thereby his karma is nullified.

We might give remedies and healing techniques. Only divine decides which one will work. Divine’s way is too mysterious for us to comprehend in one lifetime!!!

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Play happy

Madhu

How can we give up thinking about future as we see so many broken and unhappy marriages in my surroundings? So, this kind of fear comes.

Naran

When a thought comes, check the mind by saying, “If this thought gives me fear, why don’t I release this?”

“Can I release this?”

Just say “I let go this thought which gives me fear”.

You can also ask another question, “What thought gives me fearlessness?”

Come with as many thoughts as possible.

When a thought that gives you safety or trust appears, welcome it and release it.

It is a game! Play!!

Harmony packed for marriage

Roopa

My husband keeps complains that in this world, “Everyone hates me. I have no good friends, relatives. Because everyone tries to take advantage of me, I keep away from my relatives and friends”.

Also, my husband does not like me inviting anyone on the weekends, meet anyone outside and visit any of my relatives or friends house.  He insults me and abuses me in front of others.

Knowing this some of my friends does not want to visit my house as they cannot take what my husband does to me. Literally, I have no one visiting my new house.

I do not know what to do. Can you suggest something?

Naran

Chant “BEECH, WILLOW, HOLLY, AGRIMONY, CHERRY PLUM”

Explanation

Beech, Willow, Holly, Agrimony, and Cherry Plum are Bach Flower Remedies. This is one of the combinations – HARMONY PACK, I suggest for finding harmony within one’s family.

Fault-finding: BEECH

Blaming others for one’s problems: WILLOW

Intense rage and suspicions’ about some members in the family: HOLLY

Seeking peace: AGRIMONY

Not to lose control: CHERRY PLUM

Obstacles for wedding

Priyanka

I am getting married in November 2012. It is an arranged marriage and was fixed in Oct 2011.

Since the time the marriage was fixed, I and my fiancé’ faced a lot of obstacles (including obstacles from relatives etc.) and the dates were postponed twice.

I now want to ensure a happy married life. Although it is an arranged marriage, I want to ensure that I give my partner a lot of love, respect and affection.

Naran

I am very happy about the marriage. Congratulations and Best of luck for everything in life.

You are the only person who asked me “I want to give my partner a lot of love, respect and affection.”

My special prayers will be there for you and your husband.

As and when any obstacle comes, just say, “I submit this to the feet of Divine” and move ahead.

Don’t have any ill feeling towards anybody.

  • Thank the marriage day in advance.
  • Thank your parents, his parents and all those who are involved in performing this marriage.
  • Thank the marriage hall.
  • Thank the cook.
  • Thank the attendees.
  • Think and thank everyone who is involved in this marriage.
  • Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, HORNBEAM, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER”

My husband never talks to me

Sasi

My husband never talks to me lot but talks to other girls and women.

When we go to function he shares all his works to other women which he has not told me. If I call him to any place he says no time, but spend time for his mom and his sisters.

I want my husband to respect me and share only to me.

Naran

Do you respect your husband?

Sasi

Yes I respect him, help him a lot and I tell all the things to him before he asks or others tell him.

But many a times I have come to know about him from others – business or family matters. Only if I ask him he will say. I feel hurt at that time.

He wants me to invite his brother and sis-in-law, but argues with me and starts a fight. But never ask them a word if they talk false of me.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Write TOGETHER DIVINE daily 100 times and 11 times with the left hand (if you are a right-hander)

Please check out this blog: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/i-deserve-respect/

Help for Marriage

Is available for free from Animal Spirit Guides: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/

Waiting for the divine time

If you feel, ‘So many years we are looking for a groom for my daughter, nothing seems to be happening’ then CUCKOO will give you the required patience to achieve your goal.

Refusing to marry

Lion helps in strong family ties and strong brotherhood. Those who say that “I don’t want to marry” this lion photo will help to get family ties.

Inviting the right partner

Write the name of the bride, draw a circle over it, and write the word CROW around it. She will invite the right partner.

When you are entering into partnership or marriage, to find out whether they are genuine or not, take the picture of crow with you.

When one seeks alliance for his daughter or son, so at that time the bride or bridegroom can keep a photo of WOLF with him/her while talking to each other, so that he/she can come to know the integrity of the other person. With Wolf you will only meet a person who is loyal to you. Disloyal persons will not come near you. Wolf will also make a person truthful.

Getting acceptance

If parents are not accepting the girl chosen by the son, the son can keep OCTOPUS while talking to his parents to make them flexible.

PELICAN: When a boy comes to see the girl for marriage keep the photo with the girl and she will be liked by the groom.

Before marriage

Before getting married, pray, “DRAGON FLY, please help me to find the truth about my would-be”.

Issues in Family

Blogs by Naran S Balakumar

Heal your Family Life: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/11/30/heal-your-family-life-through-gem-remedies/

Sometimes a ring is a hindrance in a marriage: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2010/02/16/sometimes-a-ring-is-a-hindrance-in-a-marriage/

When you break the Connection things get better: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/healing-others-by-breaking-our-connection-to-them/

No news about our sister, who was married to a NRI: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/didn%e2%80%99t-hear-from-my-sister-in-dubai/

I am afraid my husband mayn’t approve of my decision:  http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/watch-out/

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