Husband thinks so. If you ask his wife, she will say that she is the only person who can tolerate her husband. I am talking about the couple I know here.
Both of them were consulting me for more than a year. They followed my instructions sincerely. Yet, the situation remained the same – they were continuing to fight with each other.
Then one day a miracle happened. The husband saw the blog I had earlier posted in WordPress: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f.
He simply took the statement from the post – “I am not the doer. Divine is the doer”, as an affirmation and continued to chant it.
After few days of chanting his anger came down and felt his wife has born in this world for his sake, thanks to the divine, so that necessary healing can happen for him, and thereby his karma is nullified.
We might give remedies and healing techniques. Only divine decides which one will work. Divine’s way is too mysterious for us to comprehend in one lifetime!!!
As you said, I am chanting “TOGETHER DIVINE” and “REVERSE BOW CONCEDE”, but with no use. He just tells me to go away from his life. He always tells that.
You had asked me to analyze what is that in me that makes me quarrel with him. I was deeply hurt by him emotionally on more than 5 occasions that wounds have not healed at all.
So whenever he tells me something with kind of hatred, all those bad memories come back to me.
But the problem is not exactly that. He always tries to pick on something to create a dispute. Be it his fault or mine, it points towards me and each time he says that “I don’t need you, go away from my life”.
Due to recurring fights, now I have become numb towards all these.
He doesn’t allow me to go for work even though I have done my masters and currently doing my Ph.D. He doesn’t give me any money at all and I don’t need that too, I don’t ask for it.
He is a kind of “passive aggressive husband”. I don’t know why he is like this.
I love him a lot and I don’t want to leave him coz I think that he loves me too. I am really desperate to get out of this situation. I want peace and love in my family.
He is not talking and he does not have food from home – this is what he does when we have fights. But this time it’s been 3 weeks now.
I will be able to handle the future, coz if I remain calm then the fight would be lesser (actually I was doing this for the past 1 year).
It is quite surprising when you say you love him.
But you are not able to forget the wounds. As long as you nurse and nurture these emotional hurts, you can never have harmony (in marriage).
If you want to be with him and really love him why do you expect love from him?
First give (it to him).
Give profusely from the heart.
Find out why you love him. Find those qualities in him that makes you love him. Thank him for that.
You are writing this from your point of view. You have already decided that he is a passive aggressive husband.
If that is so, he cannot take initiative towards harmony. If you don’t bow or concede you can never have the life you want.
What should I do to get harmony?
Go all out and give love.
What should I not do to get harmony?
Stop your blaming tendencies.
Stop the feeling that you are hurt.
It is important for you to be in love than to be right.
Each day think about ways and means by which you can re-associate emotionally.
Your resistance (to love) is your enemy.
Change your heart first to change his heart.
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Waiting for the divine time
If you feel, ‘So many years we are looking for a groom for my daughter, nothing seems to be happening’ then CUCKOO will give you the required patience to achieve your goal.
Refusing to marry
Lion helps in strong family ties and strong brotherhood. Those who say that “I don’t want to marry” this lion photo will help to get family ties.
Inviting the right partner
Write the name of the bride, draw a circle over it, and write the word CROW around it. She will invite the right partner.
When you are entering into partnership or marriage, to find out whether they are genuine or not, take the picture of crow with you.
When one seeks alliance for his daughter or son, so at that time the bride or bridegroom can keep a photo of WOLF with him/her while talking to each other, so that he/she can come to know the integrity of the other person. With Wolf you will only meet a person who is loyal to you. Disloyal persons will not come near you. Wolf will also make a person truthful.
If parents are not accepting the girl chosen by the son, the son can keep OCTOPUS while talking to his parents to make them flexible.
PELICAN: When a boy comes to see the girl for marriage keep the photo with the girl and she will be liked by the groom.
Before getting married, pray, “DRAGON FLY, please help me to find the truth about my would-be”.