Joe told me that her husband has friends in Facebook and spends most of the time with them. He hardly finds time for her. If she questions him, he tries to beat her.
Joe once told me that her husband threatened to kill her with a knife. Knowing her husband, who is a friendly and Joe a nagging person, I didn’t take her statement seriously back then. May be it would have happened out of frustration from her husband’s side than trying to kill her.
So, I consulted Naran as this case is a complex one.
Ask her to do the following exercise. No remedies will work for her, unless she does it.
Ask her to affirm as many times as possible, “I release the part that ignores him. I align with that part that loves him deeply and totally”.
In fact, this exercise can be done by all couples.
My husband keeps complains that in this world, “Everyone hates me. I have no good friends, relatives. Because everyone tries to take advantage of me, I keep away from my relatives and friends”.
Also, my husband does not like me inviting anyone on the weekends, meet anyone outside and visit any of my relatives or friends house. He insults me and abuses me in front of others.
Knowing this some of my friends does not want to visit my house as they cannot take what my husband does to me. Literally, I have no one visiting my new house.
I do not know what to do. Can you suggest something?
Chant “BEECH, WILLOW, HOLLY, AGRIMONY, CHERRY PLUM”
Beech, Willow, Holly, Agrimony, and Cherry Plum are Bach Flower Remedies. This is one of the combinations – HARMONY PACK, I suggest for finding harmony within one’s family.
Blaming others for one’s problems: WILLOW
Intense rage and suspicions’ about some members in the family: HOLLY
Seeking peace: AGRIMONY
Not to lose control: CHERRY PLUM
My husband never talks to me lot but talks to other girls and women.
When we go to function he shares all his works to other women which he has not told me. If I call him to any place he says no time, but spend time for his mom and his sisters.
I want my husband to respect me and share only to me.
Do you respect your husband?
Yes I respect him, help him a lot and I tell all the things to him before he asks or others tell him.
But many a times I have come to know about him from others – business or family matters. Only if I ask him he will say. I feel hurt at that time.
He wants me to invite his brother and sis-in-law, but argues with me and starts a fight. But never ask them a word if they talk false of me.
Do the forgiving exercise.
Write TOGETHER DIVINE daily 100 times and 11 times with the left hand (if you are a right-hander)
Please check out this blog: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/i-deserve-respect/
Blogs by Naran S Balakumar
Resolving Conflicts with Your Spouse: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/resolving-conflict-with-your-spouse/
Getting out of Troubled Waters: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2009/04/17/jelly-fish-for-troubled-water/
My husband threw me out: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/02/09/my-husband-drives-me-nuts/
I feel small, when he criticizes me: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%e2%80%93-a-case-history/
Art of convincing your spouse and children: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2011/02/09/wolf-my-pal/