Love lost in marriage

AR

It’s been only a few months I’ve been married but now my husband has started neglecting me. I do not feel as close as before. The little affectionate things and feelings have started disappearing from our couple life… please help!!!

Naran

1. Chant “CHICORY, GENTIAN, WILLOW, BEECH, WALNUT, AQUAMARINE” for 100 times.
2. Write the above names in a piece of paper and keep it under your pillow.

Explanation

CHICORY, GENTIAN, WILLOW, BEECH and WALNUT are Bach Flower Remedies.

Love lost: CHICORY and GENTIAN

Release blame, and resentment: WILLOW, BEECH and improve rapport: WALNUT

Develop affection: AQUAMARINE (gem remedy)

Praise Marriage

Naran

In continuation of the article on ‘Bring Praise Divine’: http://wp.me/ptUDX-6Y

Write daily 51 times:

“I release the part of me which is resisting to marry”

“I ALIGN with the part of me which opens to marry”

Chant “BRING PRAISE DIVINE” daily as many times as possible.

Related blog

Being Praiseworthy: http://wp.me/ptUDX-2J

Double Bubble

Sheryl

I wrote to you a month ago about my husband and his midlife crisis and thinking that he wanted a divorce. You suggested me to take the flower remedies AGRIMONY and CRAB APPLE, two pills each, three times a day, for a month and chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

I have done that and he is still at home, but I feel that he is still pushing me away. Also we have not had sex for 4 months. Is there a way to remedy this? I am feeling very lonely and angry and want our relationship to be healed.

Naran

Release all your anger against him.

Look at him as a mother and get what you want

Sheryl

Thank you for your help. I am wondering if it would be best to continue with the flower remedies and chant SW you recommended before or if there is something else that would be better to do now.

Naran

Chant “CANCEL CLEAR CONCEDE BE BUBBLE UP” also.

Explanation from Mind-Body Mystique Manual

BUBBLE: Expand

BE: At peace; clear loneliness; remain unaffected by outside occurrence

UP: Be confident; be in high spirits

Related Blogs

Feel Love in plenty: http://wp.me/ptUKY-3j

Gajendra Moksham: http://wp.me/ptUMq-w

Fear of Intimacy

Patient

I was blindly chanting the affirmations for the last few days:

“I release the part that ignores her”.

“I align with that part that loves her deeply and totally”

I was surprised that I had been ignoring not only my wife, but in the past, my mother, my sister and my ex-girl-friend too. I think that’s why I had a break-up with my ex-girl-friend. I used to think she left me. Now, I realize I am the reason behind it.

Anyway, how do you know I was ignoring my wife?

Naran

The part that reacts to outside world (say, blaming others for your problems) is your outer-self.

The part that witnesses your outbursts is another self, which does the watching game and is the inner-self. Even when you react negatively, the inner-self is not worried. It keeps quiet.

When you keep releasing, you will go deeper and deeper and eventually you will touch the silent-self, which is beyond positive and negative.

Now, you have touched the silent-self for a little while. Because of that you have found out the truth that it’s your wife who’s reacting to you. So when you change, she will change too.

Now answering to your question, “How do you know I was ignoring my wife?”

Ignoring our loved ones shows we have a fear of intimacy – afraid to get closer to loved ones. Therefore, we use conflicts to get away from our loved ones, exhibiting our fear of intimacy.

Keep doing the affirmations for some more time, so that you will understand better and better how you are culprit behind your problems. In a way, this will stop your blaming (WILLOW) and make you take responsibility for your thoughts and actions.

This way, you will be empowered to take charge of your life.

Related Blogs:

Learn to manage your fears: http://wp.me/pwblL-3G

Fear manifests what we do not want: http://wp.me/ptUMq-3O

Husband threatens to kill me

Sam

Joe told me that her husband has friends in Facebook and spends most of the time with them. He hardly finds time for her. If she questions him, he tries to beat her.

Joe once told me that her husband threatened to kill her with a knife. Knowing her husband, who is a friendly and Joe a nagging person, I didn’t take her statement seriously back then. May be it would have happened out of frustration from her husband’s side than trying to kill her.

So, I consulted Naran as this case is a complex one.

Naran

Ask her to do the following exercise. No remedies will work for her, unless she does it.

Ask her to affirm as many times as possible, “I release the part that ignores him. I align with that part that loves him deeply and totally”.

In fact, this exercise can be done by all couples.

Play happy

Madhu

How can we give up thinking about future as we see so many broken and unhappy marriages in my surroundings? So, this kind of fear comes.

Naran

When a thought comes, check the mind by saying, “If this thought gives me fear, why don’t I release this?”

“Can I release this?”

Just say “I let go this thought which gives me fear”.

You can also ask another question, “What thought gives me fearlessness?”

Come with as many thoughts as possible.

When a thought that gives you safety or trust appears, welcome it and release it.

It is a game! Play!!

Husband said he will never come back, but he did

Lalitha: I want to post this miracle for others to read. 

Lalitha

I have been married for 12 years. We had a good life for 10 years and prospered very well with 3 beautiful kids.

16 months back we had been separated. Both the kids are with me. The separation is because of my husband loving another divorced lady. He is very happy without me and kids and enjoys life with her.

He has not divorced me yet. He does not see me at all and says he will never come back. I am in great agony because of this.

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”

Lalitha

Will this chanting help for him and the lady free themselves from their entanglement? If so, is there any procedure to chant the words – time of the day, number of times, louder or silent?

Naran

Chant as many times as possible, anytime, anywhere, silently or loudly.

Do the forgiving exercise for the lady involved with your husband. For example, “I Lalitha forgive you…. (name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.

This forgiveness statement which can be repeated mechanically, as many times as possible.

Lalitha

My husband’s sister just called to say that my husband is continuously trying to hint that he wants to marry his girlfriend. He is trying his best to convince his family members.

I am alone here with my 2 kids. Anything can be done to stop this Adharma (injustice)?

Naran

Whenever fear grips you, say “I release my fear …”

Whenever you feel angry, say “I release my anger. I release my desire to control or change anything or anybody”.

Rest of the time, chant “ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”

Lalitha

I was chanting the switch words and doing the forgiving exercise. I was also listening to your CDs – “WELCOME CHANGE” and “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Miracle has just occurred.

My husband had never called me for the last 16 months.

He called me today and told me that he wants to get back to us.

Explanation

Together, Divine, Adjust, Change, and Now are switch words.

TOGETHER, DIVINE: is the basic mantra to fix disharmony in any kind of relationships.  This is available in the form of a CD.

ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW:  to adjust to the difficult circumstances and work towards changing it immediately.

FORGIVENESS MANTRA:  Unless you forgive a person, nothing can be achieved.  Please check out the links:  http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2011/08/01/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/ and http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/07/19/forgiveness-cd-instructions-and-benefits/

SINGLE Most Advantage

Naran

Marriage did not happen for you. To get married is your goal.

However, there has to be an advantage in being a single. That is the resistance for your marriage.

So affirm, ‘I release my desire to be alone and be unmarried’ as many times as possible.

Release your desire for approval in getting married.

Find if there is any fear. Release those fears.

Release the desire for security by getting married.

Then say ‘I release my resistance to get married’.

Delay in Getting Married

Solution @ your fingertips Part I: Mudra Healing combined with Releasing techniques (RULE your KARMA) and Switch Words

Shamya

I have just come across your website. I am 28 now. My marriage is delayed. No good proposal coming. I am very much upset. Pls suggest a solution for me

Naran

1. Be in Chin Mudra and release all your present emotions and thoughts. Chant “I release my desire to get married”
2. Be in the Heart Mudra and say, “I release the unknown past memories that prevent me from getting married”
3. Be in the Vital Essence (Hara) Mudra and chant ” I release my resistance to marry and I love myself totally”
4. Be in the Vitality Mudra and chant” TOGETHER LOVE BE NOW”
5. Be in the Pushan Mudra and chant “THANKS. RELEASE RESISTANCE CHANGE NOW”

Please check out the following link to find the instructions to do the Mudras: http://healbymudra.wordpress.com/2013/02/07/instructions-for-solutions-your-fingertips/