It’s been only a few months I’ve been married but now my husband has started neglecting me. I do not feel as close as before. The little affectionate things and feelings have started disappearing from our couple life… please help!!!
- Chant “CHICORY, GENTIAN, WILLOW, BEECH, WALNUT, AQUAMARINE” for 100 times.
- Write the above names in a piece of paper and keep it under your pillow.
CHICORY, GENTIAN, WILLOW, BEECH and WALNUT are Bach Flower Remedies.
Love lost: CHICORY and GENTIAN
Release blame, and resentment: WILLOW, BEECH and improve rapport: WALNUT
Develop affection: AQUAMARINE (gem remedy)
Joe told me that her husband has friends in Facebook and spends most of the time with them. He hardly finds time for her. If she questions him, he tries to beat her.
Joe once told me that her husband threatened to kill her with a knife. Knowing her husband, who is a friendly and Joe a nagging person, I didn’t take her statement seriously back then. May be it would have happened out of frustration from her husband’s side than trying to kill her.
So, I consulted Naran as this case is a complex one.
Ask her to do the following exercise. No remedies will work for her, unless she does it.
Ask her to affirm as many times as possible, “I release the part that ignores him. I align with that part that loves him deeply and totally”.
In fact, this exercise can be done by all couples.
How can we give up thinking about future as we see so many broken and unhappy marriages in my surroundings? So, this kind of fear comes.
When a thought comes, check the mind by saying, “If this thought gives me fear, why don’t I release this?”
“Can I release this?”
Just say “I let go this thought which gives me fear”.
You can also ask another question, “What thought gives me fearlessness?”
Come with as many thoughts as possible.
When a thought that gives you safety or trust appears, welcome it and release it.
It is a game! Play!!
Marriage did not happen for you. To get married is your goal.
However, there has to be an advantage in being a single. That is the resistance for your marriage.
So affirm, ‘I release my desire to be alone and be unmarried’ as many times as possible.
Release your desire for approval in getting married.
Find if there is any fear. Release those fears.
Release the desire for security by getting married.
Then say ‘I release my resistance to get married’.