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Double Bubble
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Sheryl
I wrote to you a month ago about my husband and his midlife crisis and thinking that he wanted a divorce. You suggested me to take the flower remedies AGRIMONY and CRAB APPLE, two pills each, three times a day, for a month and chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.
I have done that and he is still at home, but I feel that he is still pushing me away. Also we have not had sex for 4 months. Is there a way to remedy this? I am feeling very lonely and angry and want our relationship to be healed.
Naran
Release all your anger against him.
Look at him as a mother and get what you want
Sheryl
Thank you for your help. I am wondering if it would be best to continue with the flower remedies and chant SW you recommended before or if there is something else that would be better to do now.
Naran
Chant “CANCEL CLEAR CONCEDE BE BUBBLE UP” also.
Explanation from Mind-Body Mystique Manual
BUBBLE: Expand
BE: At peace; clear loneliness; remain unaffected by outside occurrence
UP: Be confident; be in high spirits
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Fear of Intimacy
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Patient
I was blindly chanting the affirmations for the last few days:
“I release the part that ignores her”.
“I align with that part that loves her deeply and totally”
I was surprised that I had been ignoring not only my wife, but in the past, my mother, my sister and my ex-girl-friend too. I think that’s why I had a break-up with my ex-girl-friend. I used to think she left me. Now, I realize I am the reason behind it.
Anyway, how do you know I was ignoring my wife?
Naran
The part that reacts to outside world (say, blaming others for your problems) is your outer-self.
The part that witnesses your outbursts is another self, which does the watching game and is the inner-self. Even when you react negatively, the inner-self is not worried. It keeps quiet.
When you keep releasing, you will go deeper and deeper and eventually you will touch the silent-self, which is beyond positive and negative.
Now, you have touched the silent-self for a little while. Because of that you have found out the truth that it’s your wife who’s reacting to you. So when you change, she will change too.
Now answering to your question, “How do you know I was ignoring my wife?”
Ignoring our loved ones shows we have a fear of intimacy – afraid to get closer to loved ones. Therefore, we use conflicts to get away from our loved ones, exhibiting our fear of intimacy.
Keep doing the affirmations for some more time, so that you will understand better and better how you are culprit behind your problems. In a way, this will stop your blaming (WILLOW) and make you take responsibility for your thoughts and actions.
This way, you will be empowered to take charge of your life.
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Harmony packed for marriage
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Roopa
My husband keeps complains that in this world, “Everyone hates me. I have no good friends, relatives. Because everyone tries to take advantage of me, I keep away from my relatives and friends”.
Also, my husband does not like me inviting anyone on the weekends, meet anyone outside and visit any of my relatives or friends house. He insults me and abuses me in front of others.
Knowing this some of my friends does not want to visit my house as they cannot take what my husband does to me. Literally, I have no one visiting my new house.
I do not know what to do. Can you suggest something?
Naran
Chant “BEECH, WILLOW, HOLLY, AGRIMONY, CHERRY PLUM”
Explanation
Beech, Willow, Holly, Agrimony, and Cherry Plum are Bach Flower Remedies. This is one of the combinations – HARMONY PACK, I suggest for finding harmony within one’s family.
Fault-finding: BEECH
Blaming others for one’s problems: WILLOW
Intense rage and suspicions’ about some members in the family: HOLLY
Seeking peace: AGRIMONY
Not to lose control: CHERRY PLUM
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Disharmony in Family and Marriage
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Switch Words
WITH means is to be compatible with the opposite or concerned person.
Chant the switch words, “TOGETHER DIVINE WITH … (Name of the person)” when you want the other person to agree with you.
When you want a harmonious atmosphere chant CLEAR TOGETHER DIVINE WITH. If you chant this switch word combination, the atmosphere will change beautifully.
Don’t bother about the names of the persons who need harmony. Just chant CLEAR TOGETHER DIVINE WITH. Still it works beautifully.
At the subconscious level of the mind there is no ‘you’ and ‘me’. Everything is one. At the subconscious level there is no differentiation, all are one.
The difference is because of the body, and of the mind’s association with the body. That’s why we see the difference between each other
Bach Flower Remedies
Resolving the destructive tendencies – if relationship is to be mended then take the following remedies:
- AGRIMONY for open communication
- BEECH to understand other’s point of view; to have tolerance
- WILLOW to stop blaming and to forgive
- WALNUT to adjust and to be compromising
- CHERRY PLUM not to burst out
- HOLLY for suspicion and back biting
- CHICORY to give and not to force one
Naran’s Products
From the introduction of Inner Smile CD: “We normally ignore our organs. We always take the body for granted. The day when we send our love, our smile to the organs, they become our friends. A friendly relationship with our organs is a must to maintain our harmony outside. If there is conflict or disharmony in others, become silent and send your love to your organs. A weekly listening of the CD will establish harmony in every aspect of our life”.
Rule your Mind
How to purchase the harmony I seek in my life? Ask a simple question to yourself.
What do I want?
What emotions or thoughts I need to have so that I can achieve what I want.
What behavior of mine or my action will take me move towards this goal?
On the other hand, what state of mind will take me away from my goal – my anger or forgiveness, my worry or my endurance (giving love in spite of not receiving), and my sadness or my fortitude?
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